Few questions to pros and ppl that own 100% eidolons (or know ppl that do):

1. How do you decide which raids to join? I cannot solo ult yet, so I always need ppl to join my raids, but have had very mixed success attracting ppl that can help finish the raid for me. With the exception of dark, I can get the boss past half health most of the time. Am I better off hitting it once and leave the boss alone so someone else can MVP it?

2. Are there known hours when the server is particularly active and easier to find raid participants?

3. For those who own 100% eidolons, under what circumstances (if ever) would you befriend someone without a 100% eidolon? I do not have a 100% eidolon, but miraculously managed to befriend a few who do, not sure how. Just wondering if there are any eidolons that are particularly in demand other than 100% eidolon. For example, I own behemoth and find her cleanse very useful for certain encounters so I put her on my support list, not sure if that will help attract anyone.