Do you have some sort of problem understanding context? If you read back, what I meant was "If Bear corrected you, you wouldn't have behaved like an ass whereas Kitty did behave like one with me and Bear and yet you feel we were wrong"
That was the underlying meaning but apparently if it isn't put very clearly, people don't get the meaning. Instead of speaking in 2nd person, I should have used 3rd person speech or mentioned Kitty everywhere. Then maybe you'd get what I actually meant rather than overreacting on something which didn't concern you.