Thread: Consolidated Light Team Topic

Originally Posted by sanahtlig

Attacking people you disagree with--even when you're "right"--is not the way to build a healthy community, unless your goal is to become the sole source of information and spend your time personally answering everyone's questions. It just discourages people from contributing.

For example, I could've told QXZ that his guides are ignorant and filled with errors, and it's not a new player's place to try and write about content he clearly doesn't understand. But I didn't. Because I *want* him to participate. I want him to make mistakes and improve, and hopefully tell me things I don't know. So instead of harshly calling him out, I pointed out a few key areas that caught my eye as misleading or that I disagreed with, and left it at that. There's still much I don't agree with. But it's not my guide, it's his, and I'm not going to insist on my viewpoints just because I think I'm right.

You're overreacting here. And that's an understatement.

First he never attacked you. He corrected you in a normal manner. There is no malice or foul language or even an extreme tone to suggest any such thing that you can call "attacking".

If you can't accept your mistakes and move on, you're just going to degrade yourself. Bear responded because as he said he is a light main and gave reasoned and structured input by investing time in it. QXZ, Cobble and the rest are still staying relevant to the discussion and asking questions regarding future content out of curiosity to learn from someone who experienced it first hand without prior information unlike us.

Even after Bear said that he has no interest in any beef with you or anyone else and he is just here to correct some misinformation he came across, you went paranoid about this whole thing. You can't talk of raising a healthy community while becoming the source of drama yourself right?

You asked Bear a question regarding Hercules vs Shingen and he took out his time and put effort into explaining why both are viable and you can use any based on your preference or nature of content but you casually ignored that after you yourself asked the question. Only to do what? Make a huge fuss and ruin the discussion which to me seemed civil?

Again I reiterate. Everyone including QXZ and the rest have asked questions or even shared their own views but I haven't seen anyone react badly or take anything in a wrong way and it was a constructive discussion until you focused on something which was never there to begin with.

I am disappointed because I was grateful to you for your help and guide when I was rerolling for a new account. Hoping this doesn't happen again else I don't see any good knowledgeable DMM veteran who has witnessed everything first hand coming here to advise us and surely with things like Tower and GO coming, misinformation won't just hurt those who read it but others it spreads to.

Peace out.