The point is, you're the one who were being toxic. Right here:Was Kitty's response, which brought this about, over the line as well? Yes. Yes it was. Nonetheless, Kitty has been bringing these threads forth these threads for... a year now? Could they be better? Sure. Is anyone else going to bother doing any better?
Apparently not.
So rather than attacking Kitty, maybe instead you should be putting forth the effort to do it better yourself, rather than just scorn from the sidelines.