Correct. You are in a rather unique spot with that, as Dark Amaterasu is not a common thing to have.
I'd still highly recommend grabbing Mordred at least once you've taken care of the rest of the useful Souls (Gawain, Cass, Joan, maybe Andromeda). Because this way, you can do content with other element teams while leaving out Dark Amaterasu. That might be a thing you'll need to do one day... ... though probably not since Dark works against all elements.Sadly, there's no easy way to calculate this.
R weapons are 0% base. SR weapons are 3%. SSR weapons are 6%. Dual skill weapons, if they're Hime release weapons, usually have one SSR skill and one R skill, and event dual-skill weapons are SR and R.
Each skill LEVEL is 0.5%, and yes, that means that dual-skills double-dip into this.
So for example 10 equipped SR weapons with each slvl20 is (10*3%) + (10*20*0.5%) = 30% + 100% = 130% grid.
I've made a spreadsheet for myself to help keep track of what weapons I have for each element and their skill levels, and it calculates the exact percentages for me.