Ye, you were right!
Hastur looks the best, but that's because they fucked up with Frey and accidentally used her unawakened picture there, lmao
I'm sure she'll be super pretty tho, as she is...

I'm not 100% on the last one, maybe you can talk in raids OR use all different types of icons in union chat. I heard them mention "union chat."
Prolly the 2nd one, tho