I don't read all the wall of text (too wallish for me sorry) but what I can say about this:
- Total power doesn't count accessoiries bonuses. Only actual stats of the girl (including affection bonus and ampies bonus).
- For Bianca Clover and 5*, it depend if they are evolved or not. a 5* not max affection and not evolved is still weak after all.
- Total power is just ATK+DEF+HP. It doesn't count equipment slots nor abilities. So, even if a 5* seems weaker in term of total stats, she is still better if you look at her abilities.
Yes, 5* event girls (girls given by completing the even, not the girls featured in priority gacha) are (almost) weaker than other 5*. But they are still good and better than 3* and 4* (except some 4* like St Paulia who is better than more golds in term of stats).
So yes, at the end the stars matters (even if there is some exceptions).