I play all elements aside from dark (because fuck dark I don't have grid enhanced yet, but will get to it soon).
I am not saying that it's impossible to play just main element + counter, but unless you are lucky, it won't be so easy. And as I said above, if you're going for that, use jewels on single element boosts. Rolling for specific Kamihime may net you powerful member, but more often than not you'll get ones that you won't be using (because they are not of your main element).